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Saturday, March 22, 2014
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The status of women in Nigeria should be urgently and critically looked into. This should form a key focus of the national conference and I hope there are those appointed to represent the interests of the Nigerian woman in the conference. (Mama Peace, shey u no forget your constituency ni!)
This also goes for other African countries. Its really high time we started treating our women with utmost respect and fear of the law. There should be laws made specifically to protect the women - our wives, girlfriends, and sisters. Imagine Oscar Pistols (Pistorious I mean or even notorious)???? A beautiful model with a whole beautiful life ahead of her, had her life cut short and her crime??? She was bold enough to love Oscar even in his legless body. She gave her full body to a legless body...that's bravery!!! What did she get in return??? How do you begin to compare the manner in which a cool, calm, and collected beautiful lady enters a room to the cruel and mannerless manner in which a robber bolts into a room.... Think about both scenarios, do they compare??? Well, I have sisters and I know how they do enter the house. Anyways that's a gist for another day.
The degree of abuse some women go through in marriage in the hands of some imbecilic fools, boys who call themselves men is very seriously unbearable. We can't keep quiet no more about it.
A senior cousin of mine, handsome, educated, gainfully employed and very well-to-do once told me when I queried why he was still single that "
marriage is a minimum of 45 to 50 years contract and you don't sign such contracts in a hurry" If you must sign it, you must do it with a woman you are absolutely willing to die for.
So after seeing this nollywood movie today (can't believe I just did shed tears on a mere movie, nollywood flick for that matter..things happen sha!) I now totally understand my cousin.
I am not married yet but when I finally do, I will stand by her in EVERY situation. I will never expose her to any family or external pressure whatsoever..(Real brothers don't do that! And I'm a real bro!)
And to the sisters looking for love and ultimately marriage, go for a MAN, a real bro and not some boy with a man's stature. They are two different things. A real man will never lay a finger on you or expose you to family or external pressure but boys will. Also make sure the brother is a CHILD of God. And hey, I don't mean born again religious fanatics.No. But a simple bro with the fear of God. And! knowledge of the word of God because this knowledge helps. Yes it does. It comes handy when a brother needs to make some serious decisions.
Go for a man that loves you more than you love him and he must have the capacity or potential to provide for you. Now this is a biblical command guys. A man must provide for his family. Go for the valorous and not some pusi-llantinous vacous anachronistic dour! Gbam!!!
This also goes for other African countries. Its really high time we started treating our women with utmost respect and fear of the law. There should be laws made specifically to protect the women - our wives, girlfriends, and sisters. Imagine Oscar Pistols (Pistorious I mean or even notorious)???? A beautiful model with a whole beautiful life ahead of her, had her life cut short and her crime??? She was bold enough to love Oscar even in his legless body. She gave her full body to a legless body...that's bravery!!! What did she get in return??? How do you begin to compare the manner in which a cool, calm, and collected beautiful lady enters a room to the cruel and mannerless manner in which a robber bolts into a room.... Think about both scenarios, do they compare??? Well, I have sisters and I know how they do enter the house. Anyways that's a gist for another day.
The degree of abuse some women go through in marriage in the hands of some imbecilic fools, boys who call themselves men is very seriously unbearable. We can't keep quiet no more about it.
A senior cousin of mine, handsome, educated, gainfully employed and very well-to-do once told me when I queried why he was still single that "
marriage is a minimum of 45 to 50 years contract and you don't sign such contracts in a hurry" If you must sign it, you must do it with a woman you are absolutely willing to die for.
So after seeing this nollywood movie today (can't believe I just did shed tears on a mere movie, nollywood flick for that matter..things happen sha!) I now totally understand my cousin.
I am not married yet but when I finally do, I will stand by her in EVERY situation. I will never expose her to any family or external pressure whatsoever..(Real brothers don't do that! And I'm a real bro!)
And to the sisters looking for love and ultimately marriage, go for a MAN, a real bro and not some boy with a man's stature. They are two different things. A real man will never lay a finger on you or expose you to family or external pressure but boys will. Also make sure the brother is a CHILD of God. And hey, I don't mean born again religious fanatics.No. But a simple bro with the fear of God. And! knowledge of the word of God because this knowledge helps. Yes it does. It comes handy when a brother needs to make some serious decisions.
Go for a man that loves you more than you love him and he must have the capacity or potential to provide for you. Now this is a biblical command guys. A man must provide for his family. Go for the valorous and not some pusi-llantinous vacous anachronistic dour! Gbam!!!
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